In the Wilderness: Letting Go & Letting God Video By Bermie Dizon. 42 minutes. Speaker: Bermie Dizon Pastor Bermie is married to Carmelita Dizon since 1984. They are happy parents of Ben (married to Cassie), Carmel (married to Matthew), Abel (married to Gelli) and David. Carmelita works as a nurse. Bermie loves to bike.